Love and Relationships: What’s Important to You?
Learning Goals:
- Learn new words about romantic relationships.
- Talk about what makes a good relationship.
- Read about a couple who is learning to understand each other.
- Listen to a relationship expert give advice.
- Write about your own thoughts on relationships.
Key Words:
- Relationship: A connection between two people who care about each other.
- Love: A strong feeling of affection and care for someone.
- Communication: Talking and listening to each other in a relationship.
- Respect: Treating your partner with kindness and consideration.
- Boundaries: Rules that you set for yourself and your partner to make sure you’re both comfortable.
Let’s Talk About It!
- What are some things that are important for a good relationship?
- What are the different ways people can show love? (Example: giving gifts, spending time together, saying kind words.)
- Have you ever been in a relationship? What were some good things and bad things about it?
Let’s Read a Story!
Emma and Leo really like each other. But they don’t always understand how to show it. Emma likes to hear Leo say he loves her. Leo likes to spend time with Emma and do things for her. They learn that they have different “love languages,” but they can still show each other they care.
Questions About the Story:
- Why do Emma and Leo have trouble at first?
- What are their different love languages?
- How do they learn to understand each other?
Listen and Learn!
(Teacher plays a short clip of a relationship expert talking about the importance of communication and respect in relationships.)
Talk with a Partner!
One of you is starting a new relationship. The other gives advice.
Example:
- Person 1: “I really like this person, but I’m nervous about starting a relationship with them.”
- Person 2: “That’s normal to feel nervous! You should talk to them about your feelings and get to know them better. Remember to be honest and respectful.”
Homework:
Write a paragraph about what you think is most important for a happy and healthy relationship.
Extra Fun:
If you can, find out what your love language is! There are many quizzes online that can help you figure it out.
